Three Cute Cherries

Friday, December 24, 2010

are you a GENTLEMAN?

CUTIE MUTIE ~FaatiNNasreeN~ at 12/24/2010 12:15:00 AM 0 .::cuTe responds from cute friend::.


Today, we use the word 'gentleman' very casually, without understanding the depth in its meaning. Any audiences, large or small, are addressed by the terms ladies and gentlemen. On looking at the real deep meaning of the word 'gentleman' we realize how carelessly we use it. The word 'gentleman' has evolved over a long time. The word is associated with esteemed values and principles that should be possessed by a man to be called a gentleman. The connotation of the word 'gentleman' has changed over time. It once implied a man of conduct, a man of virtue while it has become an everyday word of the present times.

Characteristics of a Gentleman
Being a gentleman does not depend on the social standing of a man but more how his loyalty to his religion. Religion formed human's behavior and it is his behavior, which makes him a gentleman. According to an old story, a woman had requested the king to make her son a gentleman. The king had replied to her saying that he would only be able to make him a nobleman and only God would be able to make him a gentleman. During the Shakespearean Era, a man who bore a coat of arms was considered a gentleman. During the olden days, wearing a sword was one of the visible characteristics of gentlemen.

With the introduction of Islam, certain characteristics began to be associated with gentlemen. A gentleman was supposed to hold good moral values and be loyal and pious. A man who sought justice and always stood by humaneness with the right path was considered a gentleman.

With the passing time, the word 'gentleman' began to be linked to a wider range of characteristics. Today, one may associate a gentleman with gentleness. But the real significance of the word was a man's characteristic of gentility. A gentleman is one who treats others, especially WOMEN with RESPECT. It is he who bears great regard towards womanhood. It is he who understands her and TREATS HER HONORABLY. A gentleman is characterized by his courtesy and concern towards women. He gives ladies their due respect and acts with humility. It’s the decency in a man's behavior that characterizes him as a gentleman.

A gentleman is someone who does not take an undue advantage of his power or the weaknesses of those around him. He is a man who does not compel others to do anything against their wish. A gentleman never offends others physically or mentally. He never inflicts pain. In a broader sense of the term, a gentleman is the one who cares for the people around him, helps them with their problems and strives to remove every obstacle that impedes their lives. Easing and comforting everyone around remains the major concern of a gentleman. He is a thoughtful and has foresight. His wisdom helps him stay away from blunders.

Other characteristics of a gentleman include his humbleness, his prudence, his calm, his patience and his principles. A gentleman never boasts of himself. He is merciful and tender. He can keep his cool in all types of situations. He never looks at people with prejudiced eyes. He refrains from getting into conflicts or debates. He keeps himself away from badmouthing people and making unreasonable allegations. He dislikes gossip.

Above all, a gentleman bases his thoughts and actions on healthy philosophical principles. He submits to pain and understands that certain things in life are inevitable. He accepts death as a part of destiny. He adheres to righteousness throughout life.

Now think for yourself, how many 'gentlemen' do you know?

Sunday, December 19, 2010


CUTIE MUTIE ~FaatiNNasreeN~ at 12/19/2010 03:50:00 PM 0 .::cuTe responds from cute friend::.

It takes a minute to have a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

At the touch of love, everyone becomes a poet.

Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength; loving someone deeply gives you courage

The fate of love is that it always seems too little or too much.

Love waits for one thing, the right moment.

There is no difference between a wise man and a fool when they fall in love.

The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched – they must be felt with the heart.

Love can sometimes be magic. But magic can sometimes…just be an illusion.

You don’t love a woman because she is beautiful, but she is beautiful because you love her.

Drink to me only with thine eyes, And I will pledge with mine.

We can not do great things. We can only do little things with great love.

To fear love is to fear life, and those who fear life are already three parts dead.

Where there is great love, there are always wishes.

My heart smiled when you kissed my lips. What a sweet surprise.

That it shall never come again is what makes life so sweet.

The truth is that life is delicious, horrible, charming, frightful, sweet, bitter, and that is everything.

Patience is bitter, but it bears sweet fruit.

It is terrible to be alone, and it is terrible to be in love, but one is cheaper than the other.

A man cannot reason with the woman he loves: he cares about her too much.

Don’t hold to anger, hurt or pain. They steal your energy and keep you from love.

A woman either loves or hates; she knows no medium.

A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.

Friendship is always a sweet responsibility, never an opportunity.

There are some errors so sweet that we repent them only to bring them to memory.

Work like you don’t need the money. Love like you’ve never been hurt. Dance like nobody’s watching.

Love means never having to say you are sorry.

It is difficult to know at what moment love begins; it is less difficult to know that it has begun.

Love is the compass of life.

Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.

Na's engagement~~

CUTIE MUTIE ~FaatiNNasreeN~ at 12/19/2010 03:30:00 PM 0 .::cuTe responds from cute friend::.


that's her!!so sweet..

masquerade..peek...peek... (0_0)

flying kiss...muah..muah... (^*^)

what's up...what's up..yo..yo...

BOTH are beautiful...wee~~

Friday, December 17, 2010

lelaki=pelik=cakap xserupe bikin=xnak ngaku=EGO

CUTIE MUTIE ~FaatiNNasreeN~ at 12/17/2010 08:22:00 AM 0 .::cuTe responds from cute friend::.
aqu menghadapi byk situasi mcm ni dgn lelaki...yaiks... baru2 ni ade makhluk post kt FB die perempuan/wanita.. memandangkn yg dikatanya hendakkn seorg wanita bkn perempuan..ada tak anda tu cermin muka kt dlm cermin??erk..mmgla cermin muka kt dlm cerminkn? anda layakkh untuk memiliki hati sorg wanita..sudah ckpkah ciri2 kepimpinan anda untuk memiliki hati seorang wanita??der....change yourself first to get what u want...jgn ckp nak diri sendiri xcuba ubah sama standard ngan ciri2 yg anda nak..beli brg pun nk tunggu mak buat...xboleh buat keputusan langsung...ade hati nk seorang wanita...

n don't forget before a woman is a GIRL...*sigh*

ada situasi ni lelaki ckp xserupa bikin..nak gf tutup litup..jaga sahsiah...tup2x..pandang perempuan seksi...skandal ngan perempuan club..klu anda nk pimpin perempuan anda, ape kate anda ubah dulu diri anda tu..ckpkan solat...camner la org nk ubah cm yg anda nak klu anda sendiri pun xbtol..yes...kta xblh fkr begitu kn??tp still dh Rasulullah s.a.w tetapkan lelaki ni pemimpin..khalifah..pemimpin n khalifah mestilah tunjukkn contoh yg baik, that org laen boleh soh org wat itu..wat ini.. tp balik2 die cr perempuan yg seksi hot..der...blh tk ckp tu serupa bikin sikit??klu bab2 kene dgr ckp bkn maen hebat plak hadis2 kluar kt perempuan..walhal ciri2 kepimpinan xdepun utk didgr ckpkn...heks~~

ade laki perasan hot suke nk test2 market..ngan perempuan baek pun nk test.. bila aqu tanyer xnk ngaku tgh usha perempuan tu..ingat org bercerita ker??aqu ade ex-schoolmate a group of them jenis suke testing perempuan..bkn test melampaui batasla..sedihnyer aqu pnah jd mangsa jugak dulu..seb baek aqu sedar..dorg ni nk mengusha stat2 bangkit memori time skolah... "saya slalu tgk awak time kt skolah dulu" "awak penah.... dulu..."awak dok kt meja sebelah... time skolah,kn?" konon2 dh perhatikn lamela..walhal kt smua perempuan bdk skolah aqu dorg ckp cmtu..naek jelik aqu dgr ayat lapok zaman bujang lapok bgs tul sume org kot korg ingat semata2 nk test perempuan..haish..belajar agama tinggi2 tp xde rase hormat pon kt perempuan..ko ingat perempuan ni ape?bhn kajian??cube fkr bila laki laen testing mak ko ker, kakak ko ker..adek ko ker.. ade rase panas nk lempang tk??

end for today..nanti sambung balik...

Q&A of the day

CUTIE MUTIE ~FaatiNNasreeN~ at 12/17/2010 08:03:00 AM 0 .::cuTe responds from cute friend::.


Dear scholars, as-salamu `alaykum.

What does Islam say about falling in love? Is that allowed in Islam? If it is yes, how could we show that to the person we love without causingfitnah?

Jazakum Allah khayran



In the Name of Allah, Most Gracious, Most Merciful.

All praise and thanks are due to Allah, and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger.

Dear sister in Islam, we would like to thank you for the great confidence you place in us, and we implore Allah Almighty to help us serve His cause and render our work for His Sake.

Islam teaches us to be truthful and realistic. Usually, we love for the sake of Allah and we hate for the sake of Allah. Islam teaches us that a male and female can build up a good relationship founded on marriage.

We do not say love is halal or haram because it is a feeling. Maybe it is not under control. You can judge what is under control. But people who fall in love are in many episodes away from the cleansed and pure atmosphere.

Marriages that are usually good and lasting marriages are those that start at the least affection. That affection grows after marriage and maybe it will grow until the couples continue their companionship at the Jannah.

If you have any affection towards a person, you should ask yourself: why do you like that person? If you have good Islamic, reasonable justification, then you need not tell that person of what you feel. However, you can make a serious plan to make him ask for your hand. If you want to know the meaning offitna, a great part of it is what people nowadays call love or romance.

In this context, we'd like to cite the following fatwa that clarifies the Islamic ruling on falling in love:

"If we are speaking about the emotion which we call "love" then we are simply speaking of a feeling. What we feel toward a particular person is not of great importance, until our feeling is expressed in a particular action. Now if that action is permissible, then well and good. If it is forbidden, then we have incurred something that Allah does not approve of. If it is love between a man and a woman, the emotion itself is not the subject of questioning on the Dayof Judgment. If you feel you love someone, then you cannot control your feeling. If that love prompts you to try to see that person in secret and to give expression to your feelings in actions permissible only within the bond of marriage then what you are doing is forbidden."

Excerpted, with slight modifications, from:

Shedding more light on the issue in point we'd like to cite the words of Sheikh AhmadKutty, a senior lecturer and an Islamic scholar at the Islamic Institute of Toronto, Ontario, Canada. He states:

In Islam, it is not a sin if you feel a special affinity or inclination towards a certain individual since human beings have no control on such natural inclinations. We are, however, definitely responsible and accountable if we get carried away by such feelings and take specific actions or steps that might be deemed asharam(forbidden).

As far as male and female interaction is concerned, Islam dictates strict rules: It forbids all forms of ‘dating’ and isolating oneself with a member of the opposite sex, as well indiscriminate mingling and mixing.

If, however, one does none of the above, and all that he or she wants is to seriously consider marrying someone, such a thing itself is not considered haram. In fact, Islam encourages us to marry persons for whom we have special feelings and affinity. Thus, Islam recommends that potential marriage partners see one another before proposing marriage. Explaining the reason for such a recommendation, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) said:“That would enhance/foster the bonding.”

This permission notwithstanding, we are advised against getting carried away by merely the outward appearances of a person; these may be quite misleading. Marriage is a life-long partnership and a person’s real worth is determined not by his or her physical looks, but more so by the inner person or character. Hence, after having mentioned that people ordinarily look for beauty, wealth and family in a marriage partner, the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) advised us to consider primarily“the religious or character factor”over and above all other considerations.


CUTIE MUTIE ~FaatiNNasreeN~ at 12/17/2010 07:44:00 AM 0 .::cuTe responds from cute friend::.
there have been a 1000 times that i said i wanna change...but still not strong enough to do that because of you...but now i got the strength to CHANGE by leaving you, giving u some space to find someone else...just let go n go free...n i will change n try to find my life back...try to find the 'old' faatin back...i think i will be happy that is not strong enough to make us stronger because u cannot guide me to the right path...i'm not become better instead it's become worser. so i hope i got a concrete heart to leave you with silence. go away...go away...find the WOMAN u want...n clearly i'm not...u're to old to me...old...old...byebye~

Sunday, December 12, 2010

please aware before u talk~~=P

CUTIE MUTIE ~FaatiNNasreeN~ at 12/12/2010 11:42:00 PM 0 .::cuTe responds from cute friend::.

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